Something about LALALOVE. ♥

Sometimes, in our RELENTLESS efforts to find the person we love,

we FAIL to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.

We MISS OUT so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves

to be enslaved by our own SELFISH concerns.

Go for the person of deeds and not for the person of words

for you will find rewarding happiness NOT with the person who love you

but who loves you MORE.

The BEST lovers are those capable of loving from a DISTANCE

far enough to allow the person to GROW, but NEVER TOO FAR to feel

the deep love within your being.

TO LET GO OF SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE

TO STOP LOVING.

IT ONLY MEANS THAT YOU ARE ALLOWING THAT PERSON

TO FIND HIS|HER OWN HAPPINESS WITHOUT EXPECTIING THEM

TO COME BACK.

LETTING GO is not just setting the other person FREE.

But it is also setting yourself free from all the

BITTERNESS, HATRED, and ANGER

that you kept in your HEART.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength

and WEAKEN your faith, and never allow PAIN

to DISHEARTEN you but rather let you grow

with wisdom bearing it.

You may find peace in just LOVING someone

from a distance and NOT EXPECTING anything in RETURN.

But be CAREFUL, for this can sustain life,

but can never give ENOUGH room for us to grow.

We can all SURVIVE with just BEAUTIFUL memories of the PAST

but REAL peace and HAPPINESS comes only with

open ACCEPTANCE of what REALITY is.

There comes a time in our lives when we CHANCE upon someone so nice

and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so INTENSELY

attracted to that person.

This feeling SOON becomes a part of our everyday lives

and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.

The sad part of it is when we BEGIN to REALIZE

that this person feels NOTHING more but FRIENDSHIP.

We start our DESPERATE attempts to get noticed

and be closer, but in the end, out EFFORTS are

STILL UNREWARDED

and we end up being SORRY for ourselves.

You don't have to FORGET someone you LOVED.

What you need is to learn how to ACCEPT

the verdict of reality without being BITTER or sorry for yourself.

Believe me, you would be BETTER OFF giving that dedication

and love to someone more DESERVING.

DON'T LET YOUR HEART RUN YOUR LIFE,

be SENSIBLE and let your MIND speak for itslelf.

Listen not only to your feelings but to reasons as well.

Always remember that

IF YOU LOSE SOMEONE TODAY,

IT MEANS SOMEONE BETTER IS COMING

TOMORROW.

If you lose love, that doesn't mean that you FAILED in love.

CRY IF YOU HAVE TO,

but make sure that the TEARS wash away the hurt

and the bitterness that the past has left you.

LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND

ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.

And when it does, PRAY that it may be the love that

WILL STAY AND LAST FOR

ETERNITY.

by: gorgeoustaki :)